Know the relationship between sleep and permissive parenting

Washington: Not getting enough sleep or poor quality sleep is linked to a number of health issues, but how does lack of sleep affect your parenting? A new research shows the relationship between sleep and permissive parenting.

The study published in 'Journal of Sleep Research' looked at the link between maternal sleep and permissive parenting during late adolescence. The findings showed that mothers who don't get enough sleep or who take longer falling asleep have a greater tending to engage in permissive parenting - parenting marked by lax or inconsistent discipline.

Results also showed that sleep quality may be especially important for mothers from socioeconomically disadvantaged households. "Short and disrupted sleep patterns are common among parents, especially parents of young children, and can affect their mental and physical health and daily functioning," explained researcher Kelly Tu.

"Extending this work beyond young children, we were curious as to how sleep affects the parenting of adolescents," added Tu. During adolescence, 11 to 18 years of age, parental involvement is still an important contributing factor in how well kids are adjusting socially, emotionally, and behaviourally. Tu explained that the research has shown a link between permissive parenting and adolescents' vulnerability to problematic or risky behaviours.

Those risky behaviours during adolescence could include affiliating with deviant or delinquent peers, engaging in delinquent behaviour (vandalism or skipping school), or substance use and abuse, "Given that permissive parenting may heighten the risk of adolescents' risky behaviours, we wanted to take a step back to ask what's driving these permissive parenting behaviours, and to see if sleep could be a contributing factor," the researcher said.

The study found that when mothers were not receiving enough sleep, it had an effect on their parenting. "We found that when mothers were not receiving enough sleep, or receiving poor quality sleep, it had an effect on their levels of permissiveness with their adolescents. It may be that they're more irritable, experiencing impaired attention, or so over-tired that they are less consistent in their parenting," Tu said.

"But on the plus side, we also find that mothers who are receiving adequate sleep are less likely to be permissive with their adolescents," Tu added. To examine maternal sleep duration and quality, 234 mothers were asked to wear actigraphs - a wristwatch-like device, think of a Fitbit - at bedtime for seven consecutive nights.

The actigraph detects movement throughout the night and determines whether there is a disruption in sleep. Information about race or ethnicity and socioeconomic status of the mothers was also collected.

Adolescents, averaging 15 years of age, then completed questionnaires (subscales of the Parent Behavior Inventory) about how they perceived their mothers' parenting. They rated behaviour on a scale of "likely or not likely to." Example statements included, "Lets me off easy when I do something wrong," "Can't say no to anything I want," or "Doesn't check up to see whether I have done what she told me."

Findings showed that mothers who had longer durations of sleep or who were able to fall asleep easily had adolescents who reported lower levels of permissive parenting.

Race or ethnicity and socio-economic status also emerged as significant factors in linking sleep quality with permissive parenting. African-American mothers and mothers from lower socioeconomic households who experienced higher quality sleep (higher sleep efficiency, fewer night wakings) had lower levels of permissive parenting. Yet, for these same mothers, poorer sleep quality resulted in higher levels of permissive parenting.