Mumbai: You might think that you’re a sex god and women love everything about what you do, but that’s not always the case. Some of your techniques in bed might make your partner leave craving for more and disappointed while taking a toll on your sex life at the same time.
When we talk about bad ways that can affect your sex life, it includes the role being played by both the partners. And if you’re reading this article then you have taken a step forward to make sure that your partner is no longer left feeling unsatisfied.
You might think that you are not doing anything wrong, hence we spoke to various people who share their stories. These people reveal to Deccan Chronicle what they dislike in bed and how it turns their mood off in a minute. Read it once and you know you might connect to some of their thoughts.
- Foreplay please:
“It’s really irritating when your partner gets straight to sex. Hello… man, foreplay is a thing too,” says Namita Chadhary.
- That’s the reason it’s called fiction:
“Once it was really bad, my ex had some prior notions about sex and thought that it was exactly like the erotica novels, never ready to adjust with my need. And when we tried to speak she just said, you suck in bed and dumped me,” says Mohit Mehta.
- It’s not just you:
“It’s bad when your partner doesn’t move according to your body rhythm and doesn’t respond to your cues or when you moan,” says Preeti Nayak.
- There are things you might like but it’s not necessary your partner likes it as well:
“Why do guys want to lick me all the time? Like seriously give it a break, I am not a piece of an ice-cream. It’s annoying all the time. You might think we like it but seriously we don’t,” say Nameeta Malhotra.
- Respond please:
“Making love is a team job, so just don’t lie there and expect me to do all the work. It’s the biggest turn of for me,” says Prashant Sethi .
- Drunk sex not a very good idea:
“I feel drunk sex is the worst of all. Your partner is clumsy. There is a lot of farting, burping and you feel uneasy constantly. While making love to your partner, you want to feel connected. But when intoxicated, you feel nothing but senseless horniness which fades away in a while and leaves a bad memory or no memory at all,” says Avantika Kashyap (name changed).
- Bad habits and its consequences:
“I have this bad habit; I get easily distracted. So once a girl was giving me a head, when suddenly my phone rang and without thinking I instantly picked it up. Few seconds in, I realised what I have done and since that day I haven’t heard from that girl,” confesses Sidhart Singh.
- Stinking and biting:
“Apart from bad body odor, I just can’t stand when my partner starts to bite or scratch me. I remember an incident; things were going pretty good when suddenly the girl started to bite me rather roughly and that just turned me completely off. I just wanted to get away,” shares Rohit Bhatnagar.
- Give and take game:
“You want it and I give it to you because I want to please you but you never want to return the favour,” fumes Kevin Desai.
- Foul fantasies:
“I had this boyfriend who was so obsessed with porn that he used to play the video while having intercourse with me. Though it used to turn him on a lot, it just made me feel uncomfortable because somewhere I knew he was imaging the girl on the screen and I was just a prop for him,” remembers Jenny.
- Nature’s call:
“Sex is the final stage of a long process which builds up as you go. It sucks when you are making out with someone and you are on that high and suddenly your partner breaks the link to go and attend his nature’s call,” exclaims Pooja Shende (name changed).
