College is a hectic period for students especially when they have to move away from home, for the first time. As these women tell us, the people they barely knew slowly become an important link in their newfound lives as young individuals. The world is kind in many ways, and sometimes your friends become your family away from home.
It may be awkward in the beginning but there are lots of ways to break the ice. Meher Suri, a journalism student says, “My roommate helped me get settled down in college as she was a senior, and showed me the ropes without imposing anything. It made life in college a lot easier. We also discovered our common love for food, shopping and Sylvia Plath. It made college more fun. Vedhika Anoora, a psychology graduate says, “My roommate and I had the best time baking desserts, watching movies and dressing up for parties. We were both on the basketball team, so we spent a lot of time on the court as well.” The mundane chores become a little more fun when you do it together. Asmita Meshram, a content writer says, “Besides going out for dinner at new restaurants, on the weekends, we just clean the house and treat ourselves to a little spa at home.”
When you live together in such close confines, conflicts are bound to arise, but these girls tell us how the little fights have only brought them closer. Vedhika says, “There has to be a mutual understanding of each other’s personal spaces. Living together puts you in a situation where you get to know all sides of a person. It helps to talk about the issues when you both are rational. With time, you learn to accept and that changes the equation.” Asmita puts things in perspective, saying, “Having some basic ground rules with regards to the space you share ensures that things run smoothly.”
The bond that roommates develop over time is admirable. Meher says, “My roommate has become my family. She nags me to shower and study properly.” Vedhika cheekily adds, “The best part about living with a friend is that you can complain about your family!”
