I couldn’t be more grateful: Tahira Kashyap on Sharmajee Ki Beti

A lot of people know what they want to do and I was one of those people who explored all the options and then sort of ticked them off saying, this is what I have done and this is what I don’t want to do. But one thing which has been common ever since I was a kid was that I have not stopped telling stories whether it was in my classroom or competitions, later on it was theatre, writing scripts for plays, books. I think my journey eventually was taking its own route and it was heading towards what I have always wanted to do. This is my first feature film, but I have made many short films and I think 2017 is when the career started towards making films. So it took this long because I guess that was my journey.

The inspiration behind Sharmajee Ki Beti is very honestly drawn from experiences that I have seen from close quarters and women in general. I am just so in awe of them from all the age groups. And one thing that was lacking was that we often see stories about women pertaining to a certain age group. But somehow below 20 and above 30, they cease to exist. So I wanted to write interesting stories about women from across different age groups and also share the fact that they have interesting lives and they can engage, entertain us, make us laugh and cry.

Somehow, whenever I have written my script, it’s with a vision and little direction keeps happening while I am writing. I don’t think these are two different departments. One leads to the other, one is merged with the other. Even when you have written the script and you are on set, you are still jamming when it comes to the dialogues or how the scene should be shot. So writing scripts and direction are part of the journey. But otherwise writing—whether it’s books or stories in my head or whatever I write, I think that eventually leads me to my screenwriting. I need to write every day to be able to practice. So it’s hard, it’s not about balance, it’s about actually committing to writing, which I enjoy doing.

Yes, they are such a talented ensemble of cast—Saiyami, Divya Dutta and Sakshi Tanwar. Saiyami was an obvious choice for playing cricket. She’s a sports person in real life and brings that authenticity. Sakshi Tanwar was again a beautiful choice for Jyoti because she brings about calmness, but there is so much of chaos happening in the middle class set up and yet you want that sort of ambitious, sturdy and a calm woman and she represented that beautifully and there was a happy, fiery woman on set. It was as if it was her first film because there was so much of warmth, love and passion that she has for the craft, but it didn’t look as if this is going to be her 30th year in filmmaking. So, it was them who decided, you know, by virtue of them being so talented and they were on my wish list. I am just so glad that my wish list eventually manifested into having them.

Yes, it does deal with womanhood, identity, relationships and much more. But my approach to addressing these topics was subliminal. I was just telling someone, I have heard lectures all my life and even given lectures as a professor. Now, I don’t want to do any lecture with my filmmaking. There are interesting stories of women and things I really wanted to speak about at length—it’s just sort of subliminally crept into the scene and without it sounding verbose or preachy. That was the idea and that’s my way of filmmaking—there is little satire, humour and it’s laced with messages that I actually want you to take back home. But it will never be in your face.

It means the world to me to receive such positive reviews. I think it was made from the heart and that’s the only reason why it’s getting so much love, because it’s managed to pull some heart strings, and that was the idea. I couldn’t have been more grateful. And it’s what every filmmaker, every artist works towards—getting appreciation and it is a way of validation, of course!

Ayushmann has shown his support because that’s what partners do. You do seek out for each other. But apart from that, I can also say that as an artist, he has loved the script and when he watched the film, he had a tear and he laughed also. So that was a big validation. So I think his support also comes from a place of really liking the film. And of course, he's seen me through all these years, struggle with this one. And how does he influence me? Just by being himself. I have seen how passionate he is towards his craft and the amazing artist that he is. And I think that rubs on you in the sense that you also want to work hard. So, he’s a good influence to have at home.

Every day is a new surprise and I get such sweet compliments. But one thing that remained with me was from my friend in Singapore, who has a 12-year-old son who said that after watching the movie with him, it made it easier for her to have conversations around menstruation with him and so the entire thing was very comfortable for him to watch. She hopes he becomes a better human being after watching this so that he can empathise with his classmates even more. That was the biggest compliment for me. If she and a child can watch the film together, they can enjoy it as much. Somehow after watching the film, there’s something that the boy has taken away, apart from the humor, but also there’s empathy, I think that’s a big battle won.